Hello everybody,
time flies so quickly and before you even realise you'll be an adult with many responsibilities.
I'm actually getting there in the next couple of years and I can't say that I'm ready for it.
If everything goes according to plan I'm getting my "Abitur" in a year and two months. That's sooooo crazy. And then who knows what will happen.
I have expectations and dreams that I want to live but no one can guarantee me that they are going to happen.
First of all, I want to go to New Zealand to do an internship and a language course as well as doing some travelling whilst being there.
Then I want to go to university. The thing is the subject I've kinda chosen is not really something you can study a lot in Germany but I've found a uni in the UK that has a good offer so I'm trying my best to get in there.
And after that, I definitely need a job.
But I don't know if that's going to happen... so all I can do is hope for the best.
Being honest that is not the only thing that I fear. I don't know what's going to happen with me and my friends.
I know that I won't be friends with all of them after school but there are a few I really want to keep in touch with. We are all going our separate ways, leaving to conquer the world.
We will leave people and places behind us. Find new ones that we love. That's just the way everything in life happens.
If I think about my future I don't see anything. It's just a big black hole. But that's ok because everything shapes eventually.
Some things may work out and some won't.
I don't really like to think about the future. It scares me but also fascinates me. We all have to face it. If we want to or not.
I can't believe that it's already 2017. I mean I remember being in primary school thinking that it's still so long until I do my "Abitur" in 2018. The truth is it's not that long to go anymore.
I get this feeling every year. In January I think "the year is so long and I've got plenty of time" but at the end of the year I just sit here and think "what has happened to the year, how is it already over again?"
But that's not everything. With every year of my life that has passed everything got quicker and faster.
I'm sorry that this post is all over the place.
What are your plans for the future?
Love, Steff xx
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24 April 2017
17 April 2017
Advice: mums or dads new partner
Hello everybody,
my mum recently got a new boyfriend after quite a long time. She told me out of the blue but I am happy for her.
It was a little weird at first (not gonna lie) but we get along very well now.
I'm doing this post because there are a few of you out there whose parents have new partners and don't really on what to do now.
First of all, you need to remember that your parents deserve to be happy and be together with someone who makes them happy. And second, of all, you need to remember that they don't want to replace your mum or dad.
But if there is anything that is bothering you about your mums or dads new partner you need to tell them so you can work it out and be as happy as possible.
As I already mentioned my mum hasn't had a boyfriend in a long time and I just got used to it. The moment she told me, I was very surprised but I was happy for her and I know that she deserves someone you will make her happy.
It was hard to get know him because my mum doesn't live close by because of her work so the first time meeting him was a bit uncomfortable. For me it's hard to do the first step so, I was quite anxious. I worried a little and that's totally normal to be nervous you just need to remember that nothing bad is going to happen.
It will take some time before you get to know each other.
I think the easiest way to get to know each other is having a coffee together and start with some small talk. Find things you both like but don't force yourself to anything.
Now that you got to know your parent's new partner and you get along it might be the time for you to meet their kids (if they have some). In my case, they are older than me and already have their own family. I haven't met them yet but I'll probably meet them soon.
I think you'll need to find same interests or hobbies as well. Depending on the age difference it can be harder or easier. Maybe you don't have any similarities but don't worry the more you spent time together the better you get along. Everything takes time.
Please remember I'm not an expert and these are the things I experienced. It may differ from case to case.
I hope some of the things are helpful
Love, Steff xx
But if there is anything that is bothering you about your mums or dads new partner you need to tell them so you can work it out and be as happy as possible.
As I already mentioned my mum hasn't had a boyfriend in a long time and I just got used to it. The moment she told me, I was very surprised but I was happy for her and I know that she deserves someone you will make her happy.
It was hard to get know him because my mum doesn't live close by because of her work so the first time meeting him was a bit uncomfortable. For me it's hard to do the first step so, I was quite anxious. I worried a little and that's totally normal to be nervous you just need to remember that nothing bad is going to happen.
It will take some time before you get to know each other.
I think the easiest way to get to know each other is having a coffee together and start with some small talk. Find things you both like but don't force yourself to anything.
Now that you got to know your parent's new partner and you get along it might be the time for you to meet their kids (if they have some). In my case, they are older than me and already have their own family. I haven't met them yet but I'll probably meet them soon.
I think you'll need to find same interests or hobbies as well. Depending on the age difference it can be harder or easier. Maybe you don't have any similarities but don't worry the more you spent time together the better you get along. Everything takes time.
Please remember I'm not an expert and these are the things I experienced. It may differ from case to case.
I hope some of the things are helpful
Love, Steff xx
10 April 2017
How to organise your life
Hello everybody,
I'm really sorry there wasn't a new blog post last week and I know this is very ironic because this post is about being organised...
The first thing I did to get my life organised was tidying and cleaning my flat. I had a massive clear out and reorganised my office.
I find it very helpful to have a to-do list on my phone so even if I'm on the go, I still know what to do. I'm using an app called Wunderlist. It is amazing you can set reminders, notes and repeaters. And you can share it with you family or partner as well.
I also got an old-school made out of paper to-do-list in my office. I'm quite a visual person so seeing all the things you have already ticked and done is extremely motivating. Mine is marble themed and from Urban Outfitters.
I wouldn't say I got a strict timetable but to get the most out of my weekend I chill on Saturday and do some small and easy chores. Sunday is the day I do all the other chores and worky bits. Mostly I finish at 5 pm, therefore, I still got the evening for relaxing.
I also write down all my to-dos for the next week on Sunday.
Now here's a tip especially for those of you who still go to school or uni.
I will always start with the thing I hate the most and have to concentrate the most because the longer you have to concentrate the less you actually do. Doing creative and enjoyable stuff at the end is kind of a treat for working really hard beforehand.
These are only a few of the things I changed and so far they helped me a lot.
I can only recommend it to anybody who has problems with time setting and getting work done.
Do you have any special ways to organise yourself and your work?
Love, Steff xx
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